Archive for June, 2008

We live in a fallen world, and each of us is going to make a mistakes that affect not only ourselves but also the people around us – particularly those who are most important to us. For that reason we need to be ready and able to ask for and receive forgiveness.

Forgiveness is also important because it has a very positive impact on marital satisfaction. According to study that showed that a person’s ability to forgive accounted for one – third of the satisfaction within his or her marriage. So if you want to have a satisfying marriage, or any relationship, one of the best thing you can do is to forgive your wife or your love one’s and seek out forgiveness when you hurt her or any of your love ones.

God knows that we need to forgive and to ask forgiveness in order to restore and repair our relationships.

Forgiving your loved ones benefits not only them but you as well. Forgiveness is at the foundation of any loving relationship.

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We all want to be happy in our relationships, and we know that means we must be willing to forgive. Still the question remains in many people’s minds: “Why can’t I forgive?”

We believe there are typically tree main roadblocks to forgiveness.
1. The inability to see our own mistake and imperfections. – If we are unable to see our own faults and mistakes, how can we possibly move toward forgiveness in our relationships? We must first be able to admit that we are not perfect and that we are capable of hurting people we love.

2. Unresolved anger. – Unresolved anger is a major hindrance to the healing power of forgiveness. If we refuse to let go of bitterness, rage, or hatred, we are holding on to very destructive forces. These forces are in direct contrast to the power of forgiveness, and they cannot exit together.

3. A misunderstanding about what forgiveness is. – Finally, many people have great misconceptions about what forgiveness is, and therefore they struggle with it. Delusions about forgiveness are dangerous because they are not truth. The truth will always set us free. But if we believe the lies about forgiveness, then we will refuse to forgive.

That bring us to what forgiveness is and what it is not. Let’s start by clearing up one commonly held misconception about forgiveness.

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Ever wonder why guys have a fairly easy time relating to one another? We believe it’s because most of us have a good grip on a handful of special relational tools – tools help guys relate to guys.
These very special relational tools have an amazing ability to help us guys create treasured memories thats come to mind far more often and far more vividly than, say, our anniversary dates or our kids’ birth-days. These are tools that help men not only relate to one another but also bond together.
This is not say we guys don’t struggle in our relationships with one another. For example, we know dozens of men who loved and admired their father but never found a way to tell them so to their faces.
The simple truth is this : Male bonding does not always require emotionally laden words or in-depth communication. Why? Because most men approach life with same internal tools. We don’t need an open-sharing moment when giving facts will suffice. As comedian Dennis Swanberg put it, when his father wanted to tell Dennis he love him, he would say, “Want to rive my Pickup?”
The real reason we men get along so well together is that in addition to the internal tools.

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I want to be Happy in My Life or even in my Love Life but Why i always ended up being hurt?

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I Can’t

Today June 25, 2008. around 4:39 this morning my love call me back and say ” I Love You” I can’t leave with out you”

I admit last night around 11pm June 24 the relationship is over. I told that call me around 11pm and they did not call me meaning the relationship is the end but this morning June 25, 2008 around 4:39 am they call me and say i cant leave love.

I’m Happy that the relationship is survive for the trials

I want to try to give a second change and i know we love each other

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Break up

Today June 24, 2008, 11:00pm this is the End of my relationship to someone i love and i care, I’m not stupid to say Its not hurt to me the breaking up to the person i love, but i need to move on in my life. i need to face the future, i need to be strong in my self, time will come i can find the better one to love me and not committed to somebody
I know i have my mistake why its happen to end the relationship but this is it, i need to accept all, if its hurt but what matter is i need to move on.

this the word that i learn most,
“In life you will realize that the people you meet have a purpose. Some were put you there to test you, some would use you, some would teach you, some would bring out the better if not the best in you. Some may even cause you pain and heartache but one must learn to move on. So let go of the people who can’t treat you right, & hold on to those who love you back & see your worth.”

Breaking up with someone you care about is one of the toughest decisions any of us will ever have to go through. Dealing with the pain and heart break is never easy. We just have to live the days as they are set out and not live in the past.

All of us have had a broken heart. Even if it was a childhood sweetheart who left you for another boy who gave her a lollipop or a ten year marriage ended by adultery.

Time will see what happen if i can find the real person can love me!!!

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In My Life “BBS” who has made all the Difference In my Life
You are different from anyone I’ve ever met before. And yet. Some how,
there’s something distinctly familiar about you.

Maybe it’s in the way your eyes laugh so clearly, or maybe its has something to do
with the warmth in your hearth
What ever its is, It’s a reflection of your beautiful soul

I’ve never know anyone who understands or cares the way you do.
I’ve been through changes both good and bad,
I’ve come to appreciate the world’s beautiful people who keep laughter,
love and hope alive.

You have a great gift and that gift is yourself.
I’d like to thank you for choosing to share your gift with me.
And though no one person may be able to change the world,

I want you to know that you have made a significant difference in my life
I appreciate you and I really love you.

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